Note: I wrote this a couple of days ago. I was going to have Twilighter look over it first, but haven’t been able to get hold of him. Then, as I was looking at the Google feeds that I receive daily, I saw a lot of interesting headlines about how Rob and Kristen have been meeting secretly. On the same page you will see headlines saying exactly the opposite. So, once again, the tabs are burning the candle at both ends so that no matter what happens, they’ll be able to say, “We told you so!” Jerks! Anyway, here is what I wrote….
I haven’t posted in a while. I suppose you probably have noticed. Neither has Twilighter. I can’t completely speak for him, but I have an idea that it is because there really hasn’t been much to talk about. The few stories that the tabs have come up with haven’t even warranted denial. But, as is the way of tabs, those stories have been repeated ad nauseam–making it seem as if there are more stories that there actually are. One site posts an article and then another will post virtually the same article with only a slight variation to the title–sometimes days or even weeks later (just to stir things up again). If it weren’t so disgusting, it might be funny. The tripe that the tabs feed people (over and over and over) is truly ridiculous. They take one photo and fabricate an entire article about it–never mind that the photo is completely innocent, never mind that there are no TRUE sources–the story is what is important–and it DOESN’T need to be a true story, it just needs to get hits for their site. They really should bill themselves as entertainment fiction, not entertainment news. They use photos to illustrate their stories that are months old. They manipulate the dates so it looks like something happened at one time, when in truth, the event might have happened weeks earlier or last night. You never know–and you CAN’T trust a word they say! So, the more scandalous, the better. The other thing that amuses me, is that they are back peddling for all they are worth. They will print one story and then another that says the exact opposite–simply to cover their butts. No matter which one comes true–they can say–”We told you so!” It is so frustrating. The good news is, that many more people have become aware of the outrageous flat out lies that are printed by tabs and I believe that many have vowed to not to visit their sites. Of course, for every person we have educated about the vile games the tabs play, there will be thousands out there that innocently believe everything they read. If they ever took the time to think about the crap they are reading, they might figure out some of the games all by themselves. But, in actuality, tabs are great bathroom reading–certainly not worth taking the time that would be needed to to look beyond their lies, unless you are invested in the fact that TRUTH matters.
This site was started a little over a year ago, because of some stupid photographs that appeared in one of the ridiculous publications that call themselves an entertainment magazines. With no regard for truth, they took some photographs that were obviously fabricated and ran with a story that upset the entire world. Literally–the entire world!!!! I don’t think there is a place on earth that hasn’t heard the story of the “scandal”. I saw those initial photos–the very first night they came out. My first reaction was “Oh, no! NO!!!” But, thank goodness, I am not one of the many people that swallowed the story–hook, line and sinker. There was something wrong. Up until that point, I naively believed that the magazines reported real stories. It didn’t occur to me that they would deliberately lie about things. I didn’t (and still don’t) know anything about photography. I had never heard of photoshopping. I actually was pretty much unaware of paparazzi and their abhorrent behavior. I certainly never considered the possibility that a publication would fabricate a story just to get hits for their site. But, something told me that things weren’t right. I knew with every fiber of my being that Kristen would never betray Rob and I believe that to this very day. As I witnessed the out lash caused by the photos and the appalling way that people were willing to believe the worst of this young woman–I felt more and more the need to step up and say something. As a matter of fact, when you look at the photographs of the two of them together up to that point–it was as if no one else was in the room. I refused to believe what the tabs would have us believe. I saw no indication of anything other than a young woman who was deeply in love. A young woman who had never given any prior indication that she was anything less than loyal to Rob. Now, my belief in this was based on nothing more than what I had observed up to that point and how I responded to the ugly way Kristen was being treated. All I could think about was the line from the movie Notting Hill where Julia Roberts laments the fact that Hugh Grant answered the front door of his flat in his underwear and was suddenly the focus of numerous paparazzi. His response was (and I paraphrase) “Don’t worry about it, by Sunday it will be in the bottom of a birdcage somewhere.” But Julia Roberts’ character was inconsolable. She knew that the photo and the story would appear over and over for the rest of her life. That was my fear about this story. And, as it turns out, I have been right. The story has been repeated over and over for the last year and a half and I feel fairly certain that it will never go away. No matter what the story is, if Kristen is in it–you can almost count on the “scandal” being mentioned. Then, I ran across Twilighter. He based his opinion on things he could actually prove. He knew things about photography and angles, shadows and direction of the sun. He didn’t buy the “I just KNOW that she wouldn’t do this” defense. He had facts! Whatever! If he could prove that Kristen was innocent, then I was ALL for it! Thus, was born Justice for Kristen. He has posted many articles on this site that look at all of the evidence. He has debunked the tabs on multiple occasions and called them out for their lies. In a court of law, I believe he could prove his argument. The problem is, that this isn’t a court of law. And the only person/s that could actually bring a suit against the perpetrators or shine light on the real reason for all of the uproar, have refused to fess up!
So, here we sit…still in the dark about what is going on.
For the record, I am not a Krisbian. I do not JUST support Kristen. I support both Kristen and Rob. And I always have. I believe in them separately and I believe in them as a couple–still–today. Do I have any proof? No, but I do have the same gut feeling that I have had from the beginning. In addition, I watch the blogs of a couple of people that actually might have some inside information.
If you took the time to read “The Cow”, then you saw my opinion. There were a few that were not intelligent enough to figure it out. They thought I had called Kristen a cow. I still shake my head about that one. I don’t know if they really were that brainless or if they were just trying to drum up more drama. I thought it was pretty obvious. Kristen and Rob have been a “cash cow” for the tabs and the studios from the beginning. Their relationship has been used to sell more magazines, more movie tickets and get more hits on websites (that, by the way, earn MORE money for the tabs) than any other couple in history. The fans have been the villagers from the beginning–wanting to know every single thing about Kristen and Rob and their relationship. And, the vultures were (at least I thought) pretty obviously the paparazzi and all the other unscrupulous people in the entertainment industry that have used Kristen and Rob’s relationship to make money for their particular vehicle–be it television late night, entertainment gossip sites, or even what until recently I would have considered legitimate news sources. The vultures were the people that used Robert and Kristen to get some undeserved notoriety for themselves or have made unkind remarks about two young people that have done nothing more than fall in love and have the astonishing luck to additionally become megastars in the process.
I believe that Kristen and Rob have done exactly what was done in the story. They have, at least in public, severed their relationship and focused on their own separate careers. But, as is also implied in the story, they see each other often protected by the friends that serve them well with their undying loyalty and secrecy. I believe they have never been far apart. I believe they have seen each other every single time the other was working out of the country. Did you notice that one or the other would appear in public–actually be quite obviously “out there” and then suddenly disappear? I think it was during that time, that one or the other would make a ninja trip to visit the other. They have the money. They have the resources to do just about anything they want. “Keep them guessing,” isn’t that what Kristen said at one point? I’ve even wondered if perhaps they have doubles that sometimes appear in public, while they are off spending time together and the world is none the wiser. In the eyes of the public, they seem to have severed their relationship–when in fact–they are still just as much a couple as they ever have been. I also believe that it is highly likely that they are already married. As a matter of fact, I’ve wondered if Rob didn’t rush back from New York on the anniversary of the “scandal”– to celebrate another kind of anniversary. Do I have any proof? NO. Just my gut. Again. I’m not claiming any “sources”–because I don’t have any. But, like I said–I have been watching and there are people out there that have much the same idea that I have.
See, the thing is, Kristen was raised in Hollywood. She grew up knowing how the game works. Rob was more or less a “celebrity virgin”. I think that they have been in a monogamous relationship from nearly the beginning. Rob was raised in a family with strong values. I believe he brought those with him into their relationship. He was a bit older. He had had time to sow some wild oats–and when he decided that he had found the right girl, he committed to her lock, stock and barrel. I believe, there was no going back for him. He knew what he wanted and he committed everything to it. That was the example his parents have set. I think it part of his core values to be faithful to the person he is committed to. Kristen, too was raised in a family with a strong commitment to each other. Her parents set a good example and raised an extraordinarily intelligent young woman. Kristen was young chronologically, but, wise beyond her years. And, I think that it is possible for someone so young to find her soul mate and be just as committed as someone much older. And, because of her savvy about the ins and outs of the entertainment industry, she led the way in keeping their relationship under the radar.
I have learned so much from this entire scenario. As a result of the journey I have been made aware of the atrocities that are committed by paparazzi in order to get their “money shot”. I have learned that tabs are actually nothing more than expensive toilet paper. I have learned that you can’t trust ANY of them–not even the “designer” brands like People Magazine. I have learned that there are people in the world that hate for no apparent reason and are willing to hurt people in order to try to bring them around to their point of view–not for life altering, world changing ideals, but for something as simple as whether they agree with who someone is dating. I am proud to say that I have had the opportunity to help promote the idea that laws need to change when it concerns the way the paparazzi behaves. I am excited to say that changes have actually occurred in California where children are concerned and I hope that even stricter laws can be enacted in the future. I’m no Halle Berry or Jennifer Garner, but between Twitter, here and The Plan I have helped get the word out. I would love to see changes made that would involve requiring tabs to take responsibility for their articles–site legitimate sources and use only photographs taken with the permission of the subject nationwide –but that is an even more difficult fight than the fights we have already undertaken. But, one can hope! I am, in case you haven’t already guessed, a bit of an idealist.
Now for some totally unsubstantiated speculations! I think it is possible that Kristen was pregnant at the time of the 2012 ComicCon. I think there is a possibility that the whole “scandal” was set up as a way to allow her to disappear until after the baby was born. But the whole thing blew up–and either before or as a result of the ensuing chaos, she miscarried. Any proof? NOPE! But, I do think there might be some evidence pointing in that direction. For one thing, both Kristen and Rob quit smoking. Also, there was a report on Twitter that appeared only briefly that stated that Kristen had visited a doctors office and that Rob was with her. It was supposedly posted by someone who worked in the office. It was squelched immediately by many–including myself–as an invasion of privacy and doctor/patient confidentiality. We saw nothing more on it. During this time, I think it is also possible that the two of them were married. There was plenty of time for them to have gotten married and have had a honeymoon between the “scandal” and Rob’s promotions of Cosmopolis. Again…no proof. Will we ever know? I doubt it. Maybe in their memoirs. By which time, I will be long gone. So, as I will probably never know the real answers, I will believe my version of the story unless proven otherwise.
There are those in the “Twitter-verse” that currently are supporting the idea that
Rob and Kristen are currently living together in an undisclosed location. Yep! I agree with that one! They also are tossing around the idea that Kristen is currently pregnant. I’d love to believe that. But, as much as they both hate the intrusion of uninvited people into their universe, we may not know for sure until their baby is graduating college or hell freezes over–whichever comes first! So, as stated before–since I will probably be dead before the truth comes out–I choose to believe this also!
So, in closing, I just want to say that I love the two of them. I admire their tenacity to keep what they have special and private. I wish they felt comfortable allowing the world to see them together. True love…real, true love isn’t seen often. Love that can endure and survive adversity is so rare. It would be lovely if their love could shine as an example for others. But, I admire them for living life on their terms. That, too, can serve as an example. The sacrifices they are forced to make in order to live a life as they choose, shouldn’t be necessary. However, they are. That is, to a great extent, our fault–because fans feed the monster that causes their pain every time they buy a magazine or click on a tab site.
I want to thank you for coming to this site. I appreciate your kind comments and the fact that so many of you are thinking, caring individuals looking for answers to a truly perplexing problem. I admire you for your ability to have civilized conversations and discussions. I don’t know when or if Twilighter will make any more appearances. As I said, he bases what he writes on facts–things that he can actually use to prove his point of view. Go figure, he’s a lawyer. What can I say?
Know that, whether things are being posted daily, once a month or once a year on this site….I still believe in the power of love. I believe in telling the truth. And I will continue to fight for both!